Three Main Stages of Life

Life is a kaleidoscopic spectacle, presenting varying aspects at various stages. The years of childhood and boyhood are a period free from care or earnestness: it is only in the youth that one comes to taste some of the realities of man’s existence on this globe. A youth merges into manhood, which in turn passes into old age; life unfolds itself in many new and startling ways. There is no hiatus between one period and another, though each is distinguishable from the other in some outstanding manner.

Youth:

To stand at the threshold of youth is indeed thrilling. One’s physical. mental and spiritual powers are nearing maturity. It is the blossoming of life which youth confers upon man. The pulsation of energy which courses through the being of a young man is intoxicating and maddening. It is a period of growth and fulfillment, the limits of which are unknown and unknowable. A young man is conscious of ever-growing energy and enthusiasm. He is buoyant, hopeful, confident and adventurous. The world lies before him and he is full of boundless exuberance and vitality. He is eager to drink life to the last to taste every kind of experience, to cherish the highest ambitions and aspirations. Nothing seems to be difficult or impossible or unattainable.

Youth is governed by passions and emotions, untempered by the sobering influence of reason and foresight. A young man is impetuous, lives in the present, unmindful of the future. His very vitality and exuberance proves his bane. He rushes in where angels fear to tread. Youth is madness, an overflow of energy and enthusiasm, but it is a fine madness, a thrilling intoxication which man can ill afford to renounce. 

Manhood:

While as a young man, one did not know the measure of’ one’s growth, now he knows the limits of his development. The period of growth has reached the saturation point. The man attains his-full stature and knows how tall or imposing it is. Not only this, he also acquires greater knowledge of the world and his surroundings. 


The youthful dream of conquering the world with sheer will power seems to fade. The odds are heavy and insurmountable. The struggle is bitter and prolonged and victories not within easy reach. The fiery zeal of youth is toned down by reason and experience. One does not give up one’s ideals and aspirations, but one is less impatient and more tolerant in realizing them. Youth moves headlong like the torrent of lava, but the course of manhood can be compared-to a river flowing placidly in the plains. Again, in youth there are few responsibilities and liabilities, but manhood is the period when man is saddled with various burdens. In fact, it in manhood that one tastes the full sweetness and also the bitterness of the cup of life.

Old Age:

Even as the bud blossoms into a flower and finally sheds its petals and fades why, so does youth pass into manhood and then fade into old age. The last period of one’s life is a time of declining powers and energy. It is the downward process, eventually terminating in the external silence. But it is highly pessimistic creed to hold, that one fills one’s old age with nothing but regrets. 

Old age is undoubtedly a physiological phenomenon, but to feel old is an attitude of mind. There are people who forever remain young in spirit, though the weight of years may force down their physical frame. The lives of many are so full and active that they have nothing to regret about their youth and manhood.