No 6. Stop the clock. Worried people often have a sense of urgency. They think, 'I need the answer right now and if I don't get it then something terrible will happen.' Look at the advantages and disadvantages of demanding such urgency. Rather than focus on the sense of urgency, instead focus on what you observe right now.
Ask yourself, 'What can I do in the present moment to make my life more pleasant or meaningful?' You can either focus your mind on getting an answer right now or focus on improving the moment. The latter is the better strategy. Take a deep breath, read, or listen to music to stop the clock and curtail your anxiety.
No 7. Remember that it's never as bad as you think it will be. Anxiety or worry is all about anticipation. The 'what ifs' are always way worse than how you feel when something actually happens. Worriers tend to worry about things that even if they happen, they can handle it. Worriers are actually good at handling real problems.
No 8. Cry out loud. The emotional part of the brain -- the amygdala -- is suppressed when you worry. The emotion kicks in later with gastrointestinal symptoms, fatigue or rapid heart rate. Use your emotions; don't try to get rid of them because when you are crying or angry, you are not worried.
No 7. Remember that it's never as bad as you think it will be. Anxiety or worry is all about anticipation. The 'what ifs' are always way worse than how you feel when something actually happens. Worriers tend to worry about things that even if they happen, they can handle it. Worriers are actually good at handling real problems.
No 8. Cry out loud. The emotional part of the brain -- the amygdala -- is suppressed when you worry. The emotion kicks in later with gastrointestinal symptoms, fatigue or rapid heart rate. Use your emotions; don't try to get rid of them because when you are crying or angry, you are not worried.
No 9. Talk about it. Beside the cognitive therapy techniques mentioned above -- which can help change troublesome behaviors -- talk therapy can also help chronic worriers worry less by getting to the root of their issues. Often talk therapy and cognitive behavior therapy can work together.
Each individual needs to understand what causes their anxiety or what it is related to. If you dig deep enough and go back to the early bases, it goes away because you have gotten to its roots.
Source and Credits: WebMD